I'm not sure why you are the person who gets to say that. If you believe they exist, why do you get to define them?
I’m not defining them. I’m saying that if I think I’m a dolphin, that doesn’t change the definition of what a dolphin is.
A person can’t get to change the definition of what a man or woman is, based upon their gut feelings or intuitions. Have you ever thought, the trans person could be wrong to think they’re not gender they were born to? And if they’re wrong, what are we to do about it, to help them?
Children are born intersex, and some people have too many chromosomes on both sides. I'm not sure that your xx/xy binary is the one answer. I do think it's more subtle, but if you want to go with science, even science isn't perfectly clear.
Intersex is a different thing, especially when it comes to children being hustled into declaring themselves to be a different gender to their biological reality. Let’s be honest here: when we discuss Trans, we’re talking about the modern epidemic of people deciding they’re not the gender they were born to. We’re talking about the ones who think they can assign their own reality of who they they think are, based upon their decision to change
what they are, despite this being an immutable physical reality.
The same ones who then insist that we all have to share their view of reality.
Therefore, yes, I think some of these questions can be existential.
While romantic, this is also a bit sexist, if you'll forgive me. Not all poets are men. Many are women, and often they celebrate a universality of womanhood that is beyond vagina and x-chromosome. I still say there is room for poetry and existentialism if you want to speak of what "womanhood" is, and what "manhood" is, and I don't think it's scientifically constrained.
In the realm of fantasy, and poetry, of course we can say anything. You even decided what I had said about poetry was different to what I said. Thatit was sexist. That’s fine. But we’re not talking about poetry. That’s just an unnecessary diversion.
We’re talking about men wanting to step into the octagon with women, and beat them up - but that’s okay because the man is now also a woman. Men competing with women in sports. Men once again taking priority over women everywhere, by putting on a dress and skipping the queue, which women had fought for so long to take their place rightfully at the head of.
It's not the fossilized bones, it's the people living here and now that I care about, personally.
And so do I. Especially unfortunate children who are subject to their parents whims in this regard. But we believe The Science when it comes to so much and then we chuck it out when it’s politically expedient? Would you look at a dead person who’s obviously male and double guess yourself and say, well I mustn’t be rude and misgender the chap?
What if he died of prostate cancer? Would you take a guess and think, oh poor woman!
This is largely, by the way, an area where the left has decided to become
anti-science, either through a false notion of compassion, or else through something more politically destabilising, and sinister.
I don't believe that, at all. I feel not in the least threatened by trans women or trans men. My bigger problem, which is as it as always been, is that a cis-man still thinks a penis trumps experience, no matter the resume. There are no number of trans people that will ever have or ever will kick me to the curb as much as straight men have, in business. And I don't see a huge change there.
“Cis men” is yet another modish term, made up to make it seem that these innovative ideas have serious, scientific definitions which have always been true. When you say about cis-men thinking their penis trumps experience, it brings up absurd images of a female-penis, which is now a thing, apparently. And we’re supposed to believe that, because somebody tells us that this is their “experience?”
What about biological reality? Does that no longer mean anything to those whose politics leads them into thinking there’s a female penis? Is all reality itself simply changed because one person decides subjectively that things aren’t what they are?
I don’t think so. And I think that the tide is turning a little against the loud, nasty, vicious trans lobby, and thanks in no small part to feminists who have stood up against it, and honestly defined what a woman is…