I've read the same news Margaret, hard to miss this top headline in all sport's news here. Not a real surprise for me: given his attitude towards women's dignity with
his sledge at Wawrinka. Maybe partial surprise because everyone close to him says how good and amicable he is to his social acquaintances, family, kids, etc. But no, it looks like he treats all women like he treated Wawrinka's girlfriend. Sadly, reporters have been talking how disrespectful he was (still is I think) towards Wawrinka only, missing the woman at whom the sledge was (unintentionally) the gravest.
So this latest development suggests that Kyrgios's amicability and rich social life is not life of a caring, empathetic person, but rather of a character type called "social narcissist", or "communal narcissist". If you are now familiar with this type, read about it anywhere,
eg here
The typical behavioural symptoms of communal narcissist are:
- become easily morally outraged
- describe themselves as empathetic and generous
- react strongly to things they see as unfair
Kyrgios is a poster child of such behaviour, isn't he
I have some experience with such types: they are very much loved by their peers at the distance or "half distance" even when they meet the narcissist frequently but do not live together. But as long as they start living together, they quickly learn narcissist's true motives and stop liking him, and difficulty in developing caring relationship, then and animosity starts.
Disclamer: I'm not diagnosing Kyrgios here, it's impossible to diagnose such things without several psychological tests, but I'm just pointing out how perfectly such image fits Kyrgios bahaviour on the court, off the court (also inability to get a coach) and this latest development with his girlfriend