It is unfortunate how divided things have become, and they certainly didn’t used to be this way. I know I’ve mentioned this multiple times, but it’s worth repeating about how the Democrats and Republicans agreed so much in the mid-70s, they were having problems writing their platforms for their conventions — an impossibility these days.
What I can’t remember if I mentioned before (probably, but ages ago) is that I was born into a family of staunch Republicans. As is the norm, I followed my parents in this regard — at first. I was a registered Republican until the late 80s/early 90s (I don‘t remember exactly when I switched) when they started going so anti-gay rights, at which point I simply couldn’t be a part of it anymore.
What this means, though, is I “get” Republicans given my past experiences. Unlike so many liberals I now know, I don’t think someone is evil or deplorable just because they’re a Republican. As Bill Maher has stated many times, half the country can’t be terrible people simply because they vote Republican. That’s true. Naturally, I still know a ton of Republicans, and none of those I personally know are people I reject just because of how they vote. They’re great people, whom I love a lot. Now, we disagree vehemently when it comes to politics, especially Trump, but I still like and love them.
It would take a near-miracle to get Republicans and Democrats to talk these days (using the word “talk” very loosely). The divide is so great, I don’t see how it can be narrowed, which is ultimately tragic. What I have found when speaking to Republicans I know is that on many issues we agree completely. There’s A LOT more agreement than is depicted by mainstream media. If a group of Democrats and Republicans were put in a room together, and not allowed to tell each other their party affiliation, but given a list of issues to discuss, from as neutral a position as possible, you’d see this level of agreement. Gun control, gay rights, abortion, education — we’re a lot closer, in general, than MSNBC and Fox News would have us believe. But we don’t talk. We watch.