Fair enough, to bolded above. I've gotten a lot of heat from Fed fans over the years for it, when they'd prefer Roger be taken on his own merits, and certainly not yoked to the H2H with Rafa. Personally, though, I think they will be forever tied at the hip. They're considered to be one of the great rivalries in all of sports, so it's not just me, but I get it.
I agree with you that I think Rafa enjoys the competition the most of the 3. He's acknowledged as a fierce competitor, and I think he just has a competitiveness gene. I also agree with you that what happened in 2009 (all of it: loss, injuries, disruption in his personal life,) gave him a different perspective. And made him a bit more vulnerable. Prior to that, he'd been the young player blithely going along smacking the ball, winning matches, feeling invincible, no real feeling for the future. Maybe 23 is a bit early to learn it, but it has served him, too. I remember he cried when he won MC earlier that same year. His first tournament win in about 11 months. That's what it meant to know he could come back.
Also fair point. I'll stand down on drinking that kool-aid.