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Just ask Nalbandian, too, and Safin. Speaking of Safin and Philipoussis, does anyone remember when they played each other at Wimbledon, and they were hitting the ball so hard the net finally gave up and fell down?
Marat is an even sadder story than Mark. He actually had the skill set and the chops to have won at least 5 or more slams. Fat Dave had skills, but he never had the ability to play through his nerves on the biggest stages.
 
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Marat is an even sadder story than Mark. He actually had the skill set and the chops to have won at least 5 or more slams. Fat Dave had skills, but he never had the ability to play through his nerves on the biggest stages.
I dunno. Del Potro's story is sad. Maybe it depends on if you look at it from the player's side or the fan's. Safin always had a conflicted relationship with tennis, (read: "his mother," says Dr. Freud.) He might say he got what he wanted out of tennis. (Money, time at the top of the game, big-boobed blondes, etc.) I never thought much of Philipoussis's game, (a bit the way I feel about Khachanov's,) but Nalbandian is a bigger "what if." If he'd applied himself, the confidence might have followed. Who knows?
 
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I dunno. Del Potro's story is sad. Maybe it depends on if you look at it from the player's side or the fan's. Safin always had a conflicted relationship with tennis, (read: "his mother," says Dr. Freud.) He might say he got what he wanted out of tennis. (Money, time at the top of the game, big-boobed blondes, etc.) I never thought much of Philipoussis's game, (a bit the way I feel about Khachanov's,) but Nalbandian is a bigger "what if." If he'd applied himself, the confidence might have followed. Who knows?
I don’t understand the Del Potro aspect. He was a disciplined kid who worked hard and was sidelined by injury.

Re: Safin? Maybe he got what he thought he wanted as a young man. From the viewpoint of the tennis world, his was yet another life wasted and talent squandered.

It shines a brighter light on the big 3 and the sacrifices they made to be the best in the world.
 

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Marat is an even sadder story than Mark. He actually had the skill set and the chops to have won at least 5 or more slams. Fat Dave had skills, but he never had the ability to play through his nerves on the biggest stages.
The way he throttled Pistol Pete in that 2000 USO final…:astonished-face:
 
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I don’t understand the Del Potro aspect. He was a disciplined kid who worked hard and was sidelined by injury.
What I mean is there's a difference between "sad" and unfulfilled or squandered or "wasted."
Re: Safin? Maybe he got what he thought he wanted as a young man. From the viewpoint of the tennis world, his was yet another life wasted and talent squandered.
This is what I said above. He may not see it the same way as the tennis world. But it's his life, and if it worked for him, then that's his choice. A lot has been made of Monfils, for example, who lives for the fun in it, and the showmanship. Kyrgios is said to admire that. Sometimes people find their own level of happiness, and who are we to begrudge them?
It shines a brighter light on the big 3 and the sacrifices they made to be the best in the world.
Indeed it does. The point has been made more than a few times. Federer, Nadal and Djokovic don't just have unusual talents, which they do. They have also combined it with a lot of hard work, discipline, a natural competitiveness, and a willingness to sacrifice for what they want. They're not just better than everyone else, they're more committed. (I'm having a tense issue, since Roger is retired, but you get my point.) We keep waiting for the younger ones to get the memo about dedication. This is why I like Alcaraz. A lot of skills, AND a lot of dedication.
 
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What I mean is there's a difference between "sad" and unfulfilled or squandered or "wasted."

This is what I said above. He may not see it the same way as the tennis world. But it's his life, and if it worked for him, then that's his choice. A lot has been made of Monfils, for example, who lives for the fun in it, and the showmanship. Kyrgios is said to admire that. Sometimes people find their own level of happiness, and who are we to begrudge them?

Indeed it does. The point has been made more than a few times. Federer, Nadal and Djokovic don't just have unusual talents, which they do. They have also combined it with a lot of hard work, discipline, a natural competitiveness, and a willingness to sacrifice for what they want. They're not just better than everyone else, they're more committed. (I'm having a tense issue, since Roger is retired, but you get my point.) We keep waiting for the younger ones to get the memo about dedication. This is why I like Alcaraz. A lot of skills, AND a lot of dedication.

Looks as if Roger extended the careers of "The Big 3," rewriting the record books for all time IMO! I think Nadal might have retired by now if not for Roger winning those last 3 majors! That made him stay and push Novak to new limits to overtake them both! This changed the course of history since more than a couple generations of players were stifled from achieving much of anything with them ruling the tour for 20+ yrs! :fearful-face: :face-with-hand-over-mouth::face-with-tears-of-joy:
 

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This is what I said above. He may not see it the same way as the tennis world. But it's his life, and if it worked for him, then that's his choice. A lot has been made of Monfils, for example, who lives for the fun in it, and the showmanship. Kyrgios is said to admire that. Sometimes people find their own level of happiness, and who are we to begrudge them?
I will use this the next time you opine on some of Djokovic’s choices. You can’t tell me I do not have the right to comment on someone’s choices as it pertains to their tennis career. I don’t begrudge Safin anything. In my opinion he squandered his talents and career.
 
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Looks as if Roger extended the careers of "The Big 3," rewriting the record books for all time IMO! I think Nadal might have retired by now if not for Roger winning those last 3 majors! That made him stay and push Novak to new limits to overtake them both! This changed the course of history since more than a couple generations of players were stifled from achieving much of anything with them ruling the tour for 20+ yrs! :fearful-face: :face-with-hand-over-mouth::face-with-tears-of-joy:
Roger pushed Nadal and then both pushed Novak, that can't be denied. But we can talk about how much other players were "stifled." They could have tried harder, trained harder, played harder. Weren't we just talking about Safin and Nalbandian? I don't see who was "stifled," if they were out-played.
 
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I will use this the next time you opine on some of Djokovic’s choices. You can’t tell me I do not have the right to comment on someone’s choices as it pertains to their tennis career. I don’t begrudge Safin anything. In my opinion he squandered his talents and career.

You can say that for A LOT of players! It's not like the old days where the big winners were the only ones who got much out of playing the game! Early on in the pros, the top 20 barely got to YE $$ of $150-200 K! Now a 1st Rd. loser can make living expensives just by making the main draw of a major! I remember the outrage from Connors late in his career after receiving a huge check at a major when he dropped a 2nd round match! The money has gotten insane so it shouldn't surprise anyone that players' ambitions and competitiveness can be railroaded by getting huge rewards w/ little effort! On the men's side it was doubly apparent since Fedalovic owned the tour for over 2 decades! :fearful-face: :face-with-hand-over-mouth::face-with-tears-of-joy:
 

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I will use this the next time you opine on some of Djokovic’s choices. You can’t tell me I do not have the right to comment on someone’s choices as it pertains to their tennis career. I don’t begrudge Safin anything. In my opinion he squandered his career.
I didn't say you don't have a right to an opinion, I was only looking at it from the players's perspective, as an alternate way of looking at it. Some just don't have the same fire in the belly for it. They live comfortable lives and find their own level with their sport. I think we only have so much room to begrudge them. We can wish for more of them, but they can only produce what they can. That's my opinion.

Like you, I have said that Djokovic is free to make his choices. And like you, I'm free to agree or disagree with them, but it doesn't mean we can't have an opinion about them. I didn't disrespect your opinion about Safin, or others who have underachieved, in the general opinion, I only offered an alternate take.
 

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I didn't say you don't have a right to an opinion, I was only looking at it from the players's perspective, as an alternate way of looking at it. Some just don't have the same fire in the belly for it. They live comfortable lives and find their own level with their sport. I think we only have so much room to begrudge them. We can wish for more of them, but they can only produce what they can. That's my opinion.

Like you, I have said that Djokovic is free to make his choices. And like you, I'm free to agree or disagree with them, but it doesn't mean we can't have an opinion about them. I didn't disrespect your opinion about Safin, or others who have underachieved, in the general opinion, I only offered an alternate take.
A tennis career is measured by on court success. Off court choices can affect that career positively or negatively. Novak made a choice not to vaccinate. De Minaur got caught in a police sting of over 2000 people in Spain buying fake Covid papers. This was after he attacked Djokovic for trying to stay and play last year without being vaccinated. I’m sure with his net worth of 162 million dollars Novak could have bought papers too. But he didn’t. He lost 2/3 of a year based on his choice for his peace of mind and sense of happiness and well being. And de Minaur learned not to poke the bear.

 
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… and fast cars. Where would Nadal be if he made that decision? Certainly it is a choice. It also a bad thing if you want a successful tennis career.
Hey Bro..I'm not condoning that type of lifestyle but we have seen Poo, Safin , Verdasco, Feli Gerulatis and now Kyrgios live the playboy lifestyle..it's their choice and they have ONLY hurt themselves.. again what's all the cosigners
 

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And then there’s Ernst Gulbis who quit smoking and bedding prostitutes four at a time to be more competitive on court. Again, it’s their choice and my right to say that I think the choices they made ruined what might have been an excellent record and brilliant career. Gerulaitis ended up dead.
Gerulatis died from carbon monoxide poisoning in the house he was staying at .it wasn't from drugs or etc
 
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And then there’s Ernst Gulbis who quit smoking and bedding prostitutes four at a time to be more competitive on court. Again, it’s their choice and my right to say that I think the choices they made ruined what might have been an excellent record and brilliant career. Gerulaitis ended up dead.
Gulbis pappy is a billionaire, Ernie had the talent but was soft with no discipline. Chasing women is what he does while waiting for the inheritance to shipping business fortune. Might be hard to pass up if you have a weak spine and lush for the flesh.
 
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Yes… I know this. But the guy was a regular at Studio 54 and a regular partier and cocaine abuser. Do you wonder if maybe he had lived less of a profligate lifestyle, he might not have been staying in someones pool house being pumped full of carbon monoxide?
NAH Bro he just got called home by his creator. That's all
 

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Gulbis pappy is a billionaire, Ernie had the talent but was soft with no discipline. Chasing women n is what he does while waiting the inherent a shipping business fortune. Might be hard to pass up if you have a weak spine and lush for the flesh.
Yet he had those years where he gave up smoking and drinking and the multiple prostitutes to be more competitive - and he was! He was making it deep into the draws and taking some unexpected scalps in the process… he beat Djokovic in straight sets at Brisbane, knocked Berdych out of Wimbledon, made it to the semifinals of the French. Won 6 titles, over 7.5 million dollars and was ranked 10 in the world.
 
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And then there’s Ernst Gulbis who quit smoking and bedding prostitutes four at a time to be more competitive on court. Again, it’s their choice and my right to say that I think the choices they made ruined what might have been an excellent record and brilliant career. Gerulaitis ended up dead.
Gulbis quit smoking?! Good on him. But still, talk about people that didn't really have the game or the head for the big wins.

Vitas Gerulaitis died from an unfortunate accident, not from his lifestyle. I'd be careful about mis-characterizing that.
 
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Yes… I know this. But the guy was a regular at Studio 54 and a regular partier and cocaine abuser. Do you wonder if maybe he had lived less of a profligate lifestyle, he might not have been staying in someones pool house being pumped full of carbon monoxide?
Aren't you the guy that just said Gulbis cleaned up his lifestyle and gave him a pass? Vitas got sober, for some time before he died. He had turned his life around and become a commentator, when he died. It was a defective air conditioner that killed him. Is that the fault of his hedonistic lifestyle? It was a bad break for a guy on the come-back. Where's the compassion?
 
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