DarthFed said:Kieran said:DarthFed said:Shame is often felt when you aren't good enough to achieve something. I think it's normal. Those who don't have that aren't great competitors. Losses can prove to lead to better things, mostly the case for upcoming players but even for established greats. But it might be the shame they felt from a certain loss or losses that does it.
I've always maintained that Roger's 2012 was kickstarted by the really bad losses at Wimbledon and USO that year. Those losses to Tsonga and Nole from 2 sets up ticked him off and that helped lead to a much better year in 2012. But those were certainly losses he should have been VERY ashamed of and the reaction to them makes me think he was.
No, no, no. "Shame" is a emotion of guilt. There's no need for shame once you've done your best in competition. For example, Nadal lost the 2006 Wimbledon final - he wasn't good enough to win it, yet, but he did his best. It was progress from 2005, and progress towards 2007, from which he continually progressed until winning it.
At no stage would he have felt shame. Disappointment - yes. But that's a natural response to defeat. And he used that disappointment as a springboard to eventual success.
But he had no reason to feel shame...
Shame also means to feel embarrassed...
I don't think you'll find "shame", "ashamed", or even "embarrassed" in any interview with Roger. That's not how they think. "Mad", "angry", "pissed off", "disappointed" -- I'm sure you'll find them.