Moxie
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The crowd's sympathy and the crowd's love aren't the same thing. The crowd can afford to be generous when you lose. If you can enjoy Novak's chip on the shoulder and the insecurities, good for you. I find the craving for the crowd's affection to be cringe-worthy. But it's not just that. He gives off two messages at the same time. He wants to be loved by the crowd, appreciated for all of his accomplishments, but he is also unrepentant in his bad behavior on court, (and some missteps off-court.) I don't think he gets to have it both ways. It is true that Roger and Rafa have provided a correct "veneer" (excellent word,) that everyone is looking for. On Roger's part, it didn't even have to be humility, when he was on top of the world, because he wasn't at all humble. Just the right amount of "courtliness." Djokovic can't seem to get the formula right, but it's on him, too. I agree that we don't always like the ones that win too much. I was endlessly bored by Sampras, and I've only warmed to Federer in his later stage. But it's not just winning too much that has put Novak on his back foot with the fans. He's done some of that, himself. Early on, it was mostly just not being Federer or Nadal, but since then, he's done a certain amount of shooting himself in the foot. I don't believe he is ever going to be happy to play the villain, so he's always going to fight the war between wanting to win, and wanting to win over the crowd. That could hamstring him in his desire to reach both objectives.Maybe it’s me, but I don’t think Ivan Lendl gave two F**’s if the crowd loved him. Ditto Jimmy Connors or Johnny Mac.
Listen , Novak’s chip on his shoulder and insecurities make him more appealing to me. It’s never “enough” for him and that breakdown when the USO crowd was openly rooting for him when it was obvious he wasn’t going to beat Medvedev was telling. Novak wants all the records and also wants the adulation. It’s a Sisyphean task, it’s not going to happen. At least not while he’s dominating. Novak lacks that veneer of “humility” that Federer and Rafa appear to have and crowds eat up, is it unfair? Of course it is, IMO they are as driven and probably as egocentric/selfish as he is, but it translates more openly with him. Call it the Sally Field “ You like me, you really like” syndrome.
Life is unfair despite what my first grade teacher told me.
At the ‘21 USO They were cheering Novak precisely because he was LOSING, does Novak really want fans’ love that way? Hell no, finally make his peace at being the villain and keep on winning should be his motto.