You’re the one who said you have no problem with abortion for any reason at all in the first trimester. So how do you measure empathy? That it might only say, yeah go ahead and kill anything in your way, you poor diddums.
Your country killed off one-fifth of all pregnancies in 2020, and you have no problem with that. What percentage would be problem for you? Would it be 50%? What about 100%, would you have a problem with that?
Don’t give me that victim narrative - without acknowledging the life that was killed. But you seem to have no sympathy at all for any of the aborted.
If my view qualifies as ‘self righteous’ then it’s as easy for me to conclude that yours is just yet another example of the fake compassion that’s typical of the left.
Do you believe that a foetus is a natural stage of human life? And by the way, did I use the word murder?
Read your above. You believe that the embryo is a life, and that life is killed by abortion. That's murder, in your definition. How can it be otherwise? That's why I say that it's a hard conversation, when we're on different sides of it. I side with the mother, and you with the unborn fetus.
I didn’t make concessions for any specific reason at all. But I’m quite aware of the hard cases, which tend to be extreme situations where it’s better to abort, which would include saving the life of the mother ahead of the baby, if the choice is that stark. I have said that to stop mass killings of babies like in 2020, I’d concede the hard cases. They’re not called hard cases for no reason.
But there are too many soft cases. You live in a country of wealth and excess. This is excess, and poverty.
And we have an increasing disparity of wealth-to-poverty ratio here, and poverty is a big reason that women have abortions. With more poverty, and fewer safety nets, women and families will choose to abort children they can't afford to raise. This is not uncommon, in favor of the children they already have.
This is sentimental and wrong. Who said we have no empathy? You know very little about my life, so what you’re saying here is irrelevant. We’re discussing an issue. We know that people have hard choices. Take that as given in future, please. But don’t give us this idea that you have more empathy just because you only see one side of the discussion and have absolutely no empathy for baby that could have been born.
Do you know how violent the abortion procedure can be? You think they feel no pain? Check your empathy before you check for mine.
I don’t keep going to this. I think I said it twice. It’s to give a helicopter view of it. To make you see that 60m+ abortions is excessive and that maybe you might think of the baby in the womb for once, instead of only women’s rights. When a woman becomes pregnant it’s complex. It’s not just a simple game where she has dominion over life and death. And yes, in 100 years people might disagree with me. I don’t think so, unless we’ve become more ‘liberal’ and uncaring. That’s not impossible either.
That is very much your opinion of the future. However, neither of us can predict it.
I agree with your last sentence though, if it’s true. I think they ought to have kept that part of the clinics open and don’t know enough about it to know why they didn’t…
I'm glad we agree on this, but I'm sorry you felt the need to add "if it's true." I have made this point in several ways, including with articles and podcasts. I don't expect you to have paid attention to all of it, but I would have hope that some of it might have sunk in. The reasons for them disappearing and being defunded is multi-pronged, but all relating to anti-abortion legislation. Because many women's health clinics also provided abortions, their funding got cut in many of the more conservative states. If by "they" you mean "the various states" could have kept funding for all other services provided, especially to younger and low-income women, I suppose they could have, but they didn't. They chose to starve them out completely.
Another reason that clinics that provide abortions have closed is violence and intimidation. Yet another, particularly in the fall of Roe v. Wade, and subsequent state-by-state legislation is that healthcare providers are unclear as to what they can and cannot do, or can or cannot say to a patient, even offering advice without risking jail, to the point that they leave the state, and choose to practice elsewhere. The problem isn't in every state, just in the conservative ones, who have passed very strict laws about abortion.
You can see here that women's healthcare is better in the liberal states:
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Mississippi ranks the lowest, (as it does in many things,) where abortion is completely illegal now. In all circumstances. In states where anti-abortion was a high priority, women's healthcare became a low priority, particularly for low-income women. Like everything else in this country, if you have the money, no worries.
If you're really interested, you can download an article here. This pre-dates the fall of Roe v. Wade, in terms of impact on women's health, due to women's health clinic closures.
The Impact of Women's Health Clinic Closures on Preventive Care by Yao Lu and David J. G. Slusky. Published in volume 8, issue 3, pages 100-124 of American Economic Journal: Applied Economics, July 2016, Abstract: We examine the impact of women's health clinic closures on women's preventive care...
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