Didi said:
Clay Death said:
there is nobody around but that is to be expected. it will take 3 long years before we have around 200 members or so.
no worries. all it is meant to be is a little place to tinker around with. it is just nice to call a few places home.
Hey Clay, don't get me wrong but may I ask why are you so desperately trying to create your own forum? I don't quite get it. I mean Tennis Frontier already is the kind of forum and familiar home you are always dreaming of and craving for. It's neither too big nor too small and it already has 200+ members and 25-30 regulars many of which you are friends with and know for a long time since the days of tennis.com. You have been given a huge platform here and the most important thing - you are being held in high esteem. People may disagree with your opinions but you are a valued and appreciated member here for all your work. Britbox is always open for conversation. I'm sure there is a way for you, Emma and all of your friends to find a home here without much drama. You are all valued as far as I know.
Edit: Anyway I'm glad to see you around.
Hi Didi, thanks for the well intended post. I can't speak for herc but from time to time I do give him friendly suggestions. Personally I prefer whatever herc likes to do, because like all human beings, he'll make mistakes in the process and learn from these mistakes, which is essential for human growth, but as I've mentioned before, from time to time I'd like to give him suggestions. And because I mean well, those suggestions are very well received by him. The reason why herc now has his own forum is because he got burned a few times in the past and the idea he has and the passion he feels is not ideal for all these forums. Plus, he's really never given the true mod status so he felt short a few times. I am sure every one has their own reasons but that was something he felt strongly about. Personally, I feel he'll be very happy with his forum if it has the potential to grow. He does take all the necessary steps to build it and has his intentions well placed. He's good at heart and won't stab anyone in the back if other remain true to their words.
As to myself, well I've been struggling a great deal with the online forums lately and all. I had to leave Murray's World because first of all, it gets a bit too personal at times; second, there's so much the forum owner could do under the circumstances created by some of the regular posters who tend to get rude and mean very easily. In any case, it wasn't a very ideal place for me, so after I set the tone for Wimbledon, I had to leave for good. That led me to come back to Tennis4u after a few weeks, but that too got out of hand because of Alex and almost right away. So herc needed a place to hang out and he suggested that we move here and we did. Whatever happened here I am sure you are aware of it. Personally I felt my freedom was slightly compromised and my freedom means everything to me as I trust my own judgment though I could be wrong at times I admit or misinterpreted. Anyway, I just couldn't continue with the drama anymore especially when I realized I didn't have to be on any forum, so I had to cut down all but Camelot tennis (in the meantime, I had gone MIA from time to time to adjust the ongoing dramas as it seemed never ending and could essentially bring you down, especially when you were only looking to relax ). CT just a very relaxing forum for me. I have nothing to worry about. It feels very comfortable which I need very much right now for sanity' sake. Dunno what lies ahead but for now, Camelot is enough for me to get by and of course, work gets in the way more often than not for me to post on one too many forums.
Anyway, I thought I'd give my side of the story and there it is. Thanks again for your kind post!