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it's ironic, because one of the tropes in modern society is that there has always been a flaw in the way young boys are brought up. That they're socialised to be aggressive and that this is somehow a bad thing. The reality is that boys are aggressive because of their nature. The process of their development is to help them learn to channel this aggression in ways that benefit society. Sadly the real problem is how girls are responding to modern society, given the way they are brought up. I don't believe there's anything wrong with the way girls are developed into young women. I think the issue is the intersection of their development and modern society. While boys are conditioned to find solutions, girls are taught to have expectations about what society owes them. This is why so many in this generation, boys and girls, believe in equity. It's no longer about finding solutions for yourself, now it's about what society owes you. Include boys in this as well, because of what I see as the feminisation of boys. This only started to happen when the percentage of men in teaching positions fell dramatically. I'm honestly not sure how we recover from this.It’s very fascinating why they don’t, though. Partly I’d say it’s ideological blindness - they’re so conditioned to think of the other side as being evil Nazis and bigots, that they can’t imagine why they should ever listen to them. And they’re the ‘compassionate’ ones, right? So they definitely will never see that they’re wrong and the ‘Nazis’ are right. Or even that compassion can be shown by the ‘Nazis’, and most especially they will never see that they’re not the compassionate ones at all. Even remotely.
And as well there’s what you’re saying, their warped ideas about equality. Their dishonest position on diversity. And their far from inclusive policies of inclusion. That they can’t see all this is probably the most interesting and a scary part of it all…
But the bottom line is that if you're sitting there thinking society owes you something, you're less capable of understanding reality and what you need to do - for yourself - to achieve on your own terms
If people don't understand what I mean consider this new trend, that can be observed on Tiktok where young girls when asked what their dating preferences are, will talk about the three 6's : six ft tall; six figure salary; six inch you know what. And as far as they're concerned that's perfectly reasonable, even though less than 5% of the male population matches that. Whereas if a man says he just doesn't want a girl to be fat, those same girls will scream that he's being fatphobic. Never mind the fact that being fat is a choice. Being less that 6ft tall, or having less than 6 inches is not changeable. That's the batshit crazy world we live in