El Dude said:
Moxie, tented, Broken - I must say that I'm a bit turned off by the public shaming going on. I made a joke, you didn't like it - now give it a rest rather than hammering on me like I crucified a bunny rabbit on Easter. I'm willing to apologize if I feel like I've said or done something inappropriate or hurtful, but this was playful ribbing about sports.
Now that things have calmed down a bit, I'll address this.
Speaking for myself (although I suspect the same can be said of Broken and Moxie), my comment wasn't something that
only you would have prompted. It wasn't personal, if you know what I mean. I imagine, and hope, you know that I think you're a great guy, and we
all benefit from your presence. I would have responded the same to anyone who had started this poll, not just you.
Whenever anyone posts something on a public forum, he/she has to expect public responses. Some of them you'll like, and some of them you won't. We've all experienced both ends of this spectrum. However, I don't think "public shaming" is the right way to interpret it. If you did feel like that's what I was doing, then I apologize. That was absolutely not my intention.
Once again, speaking only for myself as a Rafa fan, it has become tiresome to be lumped together, and perceived as a united group of Rafapologistsâ„¢. Yes, sometimes Nadal does, indeed, lose because he's injured, such as this year's Australian Open final. But, yes, there have been many, many times when he's lost because he was outplayed: every match against Djokovic in 2011, their post-USO matches last year, the recent Miami final, the Miami final a few years ago against Davydenko, the 2007 Nalbandian matches, etc., etc. Those are just a few which quickly come to mind; by no means is it meant to be a comprehensive list. Not. Even. Close.
I realize there's the perception of Rafa and some of his fans being Rafapologistsâ„¢, but part of this is to be blamed on the media. He was clearly injured in the AO final. When he then lost to Dolgopolov in IW, the media asked him about his back. They brought it up, not him, and he responded by saying no, it wasn't his back. That's not excuse making; it's answering a question. Yet certain people somehow twist that around and call it excuse making. (But somehow some of those same individuals don't call it excuse making when Roger is asked about his back, but that's another thread.
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I also think Rafa's injuries stand out in high relief because his contemporary, his most famous rival, Roger Federer, has been virtually injury free. When you have two of the best guys ever to pick up a racquet juxtaposed, with one of them bordering on the ideal picture of health, and the other with bad knees, the differences are amplified hugely.
Anyway, I'll stop before I go way off track. I hope this is an acceptable response to you, which settles things.