[QUOTE="Busted, post: 327803, member: 544
I have to deal with racism every day of my life.
You never did answer the question "How?"[/QUOTE]
I'm guessing this means you're not a minority? You go in a store...the sales person follows you around but there are 20 white people that nobody's watching. People say stupid shite to you like, "There's a very nice African-American woman who lives next door to me." That one's subtle. You're in a store and write a check - they ask for 2 forms of ID. The white person in front of you only had to produce their driver's license. And my personal favorite was the time I was at work , customer comes in, we're chit chatting...and she says to me, "You have such nice hair. What part of India are you from?" I have ZERO accent and am NOT Indian but apparently black people aren't supposed to have "nice hair" and since I'm not coal black, then obviously I MUST be from a foreign country that has brown people. She was clueless that she was even being racist. I spend a lot of time biting my tongue. Then there's listening to people refer to physicians from India or Pakistan as "LBDs" behind their backs - "Little Brown Doctors." And I'm standing there going, "Uh...HELLO! I'm right here!" Apparently some people think it's OK to be racist about another ethnic group in front of you because they're not talking about you and you MIGHT agree with them. And yes, these physicians are fully aware this is what they're called behind their backs. Racism in this day and age can seem like a "nothing burger" to non-minorities, but believe me - it's not nothing when you're constantly on the receiving end of it.