What I'm saying is that there is nothing to say that he wasn't playing his best tennis, and I mean "peak" in those matches. He played well in those tournaments and on those years, leading up. You can't cherry-pick a match when your guy lost to the best in the game at RG, and say, "Oh, sigh, sadly he didn't play well that day." If he's peak, he's peak, and if he can't beat the guy whose best on the surface, he, at his peak, can't beat him at his peak. That's clear.
The difference in the h2h v the 2 of them is 3 matches. How much does that prove? And surface matters. I'm quoting Courier because he has the stats. You may not like it, but there it is. I didn't say that Rafa has a better serve, but he does have the better return of serve. Year after year. And at least Rafa doesn't have a horrible weakness, like Novak's smash. Or his head. Novak is not more talented than Nadal. He's differently talented, same with Federer. You don't get 19+ Majors without a huge talent. I'm sure that's apparent, even to a person with your prejudices.