Things is that we will debate endlessly, as each one will associate the word "feminism" to a different group and attitude. Me, and probably a lot of guys here, are associating it to a specific group, which is, well, annoying to say the least (and, sorry Moxie, they exist yet. In fact, most of the [bad] arguments public figures gave on the subject which originated this thread go along those lines).
Moxie, and maybe Federberg, associate the word feminism with more positive meanings, and to groups of people with a fare more balanced point of view than the groups "we" think of when thinking of feminism. If you look closely, all the debate here gravitates around this difference.