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"My favorite tennis player is better than your favorite tennis player, who was just lucky when he beat my tennis player, who was injured and/or not playing his best."
I don't know how many times I've heard some variation of the above from (supposedly) grown men (women tend not to stoop this low, or at least have their own version of posturing that is a bit more subtle).
It gets ridiculous and, unfortunately, obfuscates more interesting conversation. I'm all for comparing the records of players and discussing their relative levels, but every time posturing creeps into the conversation, the waters get muddied. I just don't see the point of it. I mean, I know people identify with their favorite sports team/player, but it seems there is this common, unconscious assumption that the performance and greatness of one's favorite player somehow translates into one's self-worth and standing, as if I am great because Roger is (or was) great; as if I beat you because Roger beat your favorite player.
Look, for you Rafa fans out there that are doing this, let it go. Rafa is an amazing player who is having a third peak - enjoy that. I certainly am, although probably not as much as you. Enjoy it not only because Rafa is amazing, but because it won't last - and this is another reason to stop the posturing, because it gets in the way of your own enjoyment. Stop belittling Novak Djokovic, Roger Federer, and fans of other players. Enjoy Rafa's greatness in its own right, not in relation to how you can feel a false sense of superiority over your fellow tennis fans.
I could say the same thing to Novak fans when he was on top, or Roger fans when he was on top (although they/we seemed more humble last year for that short spell because it was so unexpected and appreciated; I can't remember because I didn't hang out on tennis forums and was pretty much a solo fan back then, but I imagine they/we were rather annoying in 2004-2008).
Let's get back to enjoying the game of tennis. And yes, let's talk about how great Novak was in 2011 compared to Nadal in 2013. Let's talk about whether or not Andy is as good as Novak. But let's try to stop, or at least minimize, the posturing. Not only is it obfuscating, its just plain unelegant, like a post-2012 Federer shank .
I don't know how many times I've heard some variation of the above from (supposedly) grown men (women tend not to stoop this low, or at least have their own version of posturing that is a bit more subtle).
It gets ridiculous and, unfortunately, obfuscates more interesting conversation. I'm all for comparing the records of players and discussing their relative levels, but every time posturing creeps into the conversation, the waters get muddied. I just don't see the point of it. I mean, I know people identify with their favorite sports team/player, but it seems there is this common, unconscious assumption that the performance and greatness of one's favorite player somehow translates into one's self-worth and standing, as if I am great because Roger is (or was) great; as if I beat you because Roger beat your favorite player.
Look, for you Rafa fans out there that are doing this, let it go. Rafa is an amazing player who is having a third peak - enjoy that. I certainly am, although probably not as much as you. Enjoy it not only because Rafa is amazing, but because it won't last - and this is another reason to stop the posturing, because it gets in the way of your own enjoyment. Stop belittling Novak Djokovic, Roger Federer, and fans of other players. Enjoy Rafa's greatness in its own right, not in relation to how you can feel a false sense of superiority over your fellow tennis fans.
I could say the same thing to Novak fans when he was on top, or Roger fans when he was on top (although they/we seemed more humble last year for that short spell because it was so unexpected and appreciated; I can't remember because I didn't hang out on tennis forums and was pretty much a solo fan back then, but I imagine they/we were rather annoying in 2004-2008).
Let's get back to enjoying the game of tennis. And yes, let's talk about how great Novak was in 2011 compared to Nadal in 2013. Let's talk about whether or not Andy is as good as Novak. But let's try to stop, or at least minimize, the posturing. Not only is it obfuscating, its just plain unelegant, like a post-2012 Federer shank .